Is it confidence or Size ? when Size doesn't matter...

Confidence or size – which is more important? I’m sure you’ve asked this question before: Does size really matter?

Some women say yes, while others say no. The truth is most women will never agree. In fact, it’s not a matter of who’s right or wrong, but more about personal preference.

I say size has little to do with sexual satisfaction; confidence is the key to getting noticed by women and performing your best. Today, you will learn all the sexy secrets behind confidence; why it’s more important than penis size, how to fake confidence, and how to have sexual confidence even if you’re below average in size.

Get ready to learn about the sexiest tool ever: confidence!

Does size matter?

Although most women can’t agree if size matters, research revealed at the Kinney Institute confirms that most women have unreal expectations.

The Kinsey Institute in Indiana promotes interdisciplinary research in the fields of human sexuality, gender, and reproduction. Recently, they conducted a research on the average penis size and concluded the average penis size to be between 5 1/2 and 6 inches.This goes on to say that if the average penis size is merely 5 1/2 – 6 inches, than most women never experience sex with “King Kong.” So why all the hype for bigger penis size?

What this study means is that most women know what penis size to expect. Perhaps what should be considered is why the average penis size does not satisfy women. Is it really the size or other factors such as sexual skills and techniques? The fact is penis size has little to do with satisfying women, sexual satisfaction comes from personal confidence. Here’s why:

What is confidence?

Confidence is very sexy to women. It is the quality that distinguishes a boy from a man. Confidence is an attitude of control, self assurance, and cool. When a man is confident in himself, his abilities, and his performance, women no longer look to size for pleasure; they look to skill.

“How can I be confident if I’m below average?”

Just fake it. That’s right. If you act confident, you’ll start believing it. It’s a simple mind trick. Start walking with your head up, shoulders broad, smile softly and make eye contact with attractive women. Body language of confidence leads people to believe that you are confident.
Your attitude is also important. Studies have proven that, if you act as if you’re attractive, people will perceive you as attractive. Ever wonder why ugly guys wind up with beautiful women? The key is acting confident. Remember this the next time you see an average guy with a hot girl. Is she with him because of his looks or is he expressing an attitude of confidence?

Why confidence is more important than penis size

Does it really matter if your 5 inches or 7?
The truth is a woman’s vagina before arousal is narrow and shallow. The average depth of a woman’s vagina is 3 to 4 inches. When your penis enters her, it expands and deepens to fit. So no matter what your size is, her vagina will fit snugly around it.

Most men think a vagina is an open space. They’re wrong. Think of the vagina as if it were a balloon that is not filled with air. The walls, which have the potential to expand and elongate, gently touch one another.

When something is placed inside, they mold around to accommodate the width and size; whether it is a penis, finger or sex toy. So after all, size doesn’t matter!

Perhaps, the real concern men should have is not their penis size, since any will do, but his ability to satisfy a woman. After all, penis size is just one of several factors involved in satisfying women. Men should devote their time and energy to these other factors, beginning with confidence.

How to have personal confidence

As mentioned above confidence starts with faking it. Learning the body language of confidence tricks yourself into believing you are and women into thinking you are utterly attractive. Here are three basic techniques to have women thinking you are sexy and confident.

Having a Confident Appearance

First impressions are extremely important. Psychological tests have proven that once a first impression is made, it is very hard for people to alter it later on. Since a first impression is a lasting one, you should always be well groomed everywhere you go.

Start with the essentials: hair, nails, and teeth. Even if your wardrobe needs help certain traits will pull you through such as having clean fingernails, groomed hair and white teeth. A woman appreciates a man who can take care of himself because it shows he is confident and values his appearance. Regular grooming techniques such as cleaning and cutting fingernails, styling hair, and whitening teeth should become a habit for men. Believe it or not, women look at these factors right away.

Hands

Single women look at a man’s hands first to spot a wedding band. If your nails are long or have dirt underneath them, she will be turned off right away. Don’t worry; you aren’t compromising your manhood by having nice hands, this works to your advantage. Since hands tell a lot about a man’s habits and lifestyle; manicured hands will have her thinking you are a successful white collared male who uses his mind to get the buck. Even if you aren’t a white collared guy, this is the first step to get women to believe you are smart, confident, and successful.

Hair

Next, is the hair. Hair unlike hands doesn’t need to be neat and perfect; it just has to look styled. Because every woman is different, there isn’t one specific haircut that will turn her on. Some women love bald men; others love men with long hair. Whatever the odds, a man’s hair should look styled. A confident man knows this. If his hair is long, it is done so intentionally; not because he missed several haircut appointments. Also, men going for the “messy look” should distinguish it from embarrassing bed head. All in all, women should know the difference between intentional hair styles and just plain laziness.

Teeth

Finally, the most important behavioral trait confident people demonstrate is smiling. Confident people are happy; they are in control of their lives and are successful. You don’t see confident people angry or sad; they are cool and collective. Confident people walk tall, make eye contact when they talk, and smile. This doesn’t mean you have to walk around with a huge grin on your face; but you should smile softly at people you meet.

Like wise, you should do your best to reveal a charming smile; do so by whitening your teeth. There are several over the counter teeth whiteners and bleaches. The most popular are Crest White Strips; they are clean and easy to use.

How to have sexual confidence

Most men believe sexual confidence is more important that personal confidence. For them, if a man is sexually confident in bed, then he will demonstrate this confidence in his personality. I disagree. Confidence is a state of mind that is first practiced in your personal life then integrated into your sexual performance. Nonetheless, men concerned with their size wonder:

How can I be confident with my small size?

The answer just as before is fake it. Just as you fake confidence, men can fake penis size. This helps men attain sexual confidence.
Here’s how:

Penis Confidence

These solutions are rubbed onto the penis before sex. They work instantly to promote genital blood flow. The result is a harder, longer, stronger erection. Other products work to sensitize a woman’s vagina so that your penis feels incredibly pleasurable to her. They also promote genital blood flow and make orgasms easier for her to achieve. Now, you won’t have to worry if your size is adequate to make her scream.
As mentioned before, there are several factors beside penis size needed to satisfy a woman. Men should learn several techniques such as pleasing women orally or with sex toys. You can reference my latest article Sex Toys 101 to discover the hot steamy world of sex toys.
Finally, I would like to remind men how incredibly important and sexy confidence is. Confidence is what gets you noticed. If you aren’t noticed, you don’t exist. How can you please women if they won’t even look at you? Confidence is the key to having her intrigued and wanting to experience sex with you. There are some excellent ebooks available for instant download that can provide you with specific exercises and tips to boost your confidence — or to fake it when you aren’t feeling it.
Put my advice into use; work on your confidence today so that you can be the man of a woman’s dreams!